Kissing.

Last Friday I was hanging out Smooth's German class at a bar in Prenzlauer Berg. Her class consists most of Spanish speakers so getting introduced to them involved a lot of cheek kisses. Something I been getting more used to during the last year, but since then I stated thinking about kisses.

I'm getting better at showing affection. Specially since I came to Berlin. And I kiss more then I did before.

Just to show affection to people I really like. An example is Sinead and my relationship. Good friends that hang out a lot and we kiss or at least peck each other some time a day. Just to show that we like each other.

I do this with other friends as well and I take very loosely on kissing. Get me right here, there is for me the showing affection kisses and the more romantic kisses.

Affection kisses can be kisses on the head or pecks on the mouth or similar. People that I really love mostly get this kisses on their mouth and some tongue can sometime be introduced with friends, not making out, at least not for me, romantic.

Robyn kissing me.

The thing that can annoy me about kissing, as a girl, is that it's socially excepted to kiss other girls. I know boys that think their girlfriends can kiss or make out with any girl without in being cheating (when it comes to monogamous relationships) just because it's not really kissing and because they find it hot when girls kiss.

There's probably girls who think it's okay that their boyfriends kiss other boys, but no one that I met.

I really don't think it's much stranger kissing a girl or a boy for affection reasons, but it's considered different. Because I'm a she that does not define myself as a lesbian, kissing a boy most mean that I want to have sex with him or some other sort of relationship. I feel sometimes that it's almost impossible to have kissable male friends without having to answer the question: Is he your boyfriend?

This is getting a bit old. Why is no one asking if Sinead is my girlfriend?

Smooth and I have been taken as a couple at times and somehow that feels good when that happen, because the hetero normality is not there. But this not happen that often.

I stated this post three times, so now I will just let it be as it is. I tried to write this so that it would make sense but you be the judge.

I can rant about sexuality, queer, relationships and hetero normality for ages, more then many would like to read in a blog post. And I'm sorry about this not being my best post, but I wanted to write about kissing but the words don't tend to transfer from my mind to my fingers on the keyboard. Maybe this just came out because I think much about love and queer among other things so my thought aren't really gathered.

I might try to write a equal post some other time.